If you're seeking
scientific data, study references, or Wikipedia notations on bisexuality in
this little ditty then I quickly urge you to stop reading. I've included none
of that. What you will find, however, is my honest from the heart (or between
the legs) observation, personal experience, and musings on bisexuality. I'm
certain there are sexperts out there that offer in depth analysis on the
subject of bisexuality, accompanied by big words and such. I encourage you to
look into their work. You can also find lists of famous declared bisexuals
online: musicians, writers, actors, comediennes, and other public persons. I
did a bit of web surfing out of sheer curiosity. Out of respect for these
people I will also, informally, add myself to that list. I feel it's the least
I could do after nosing into their personal lives.
I've discovered
that it is far more daring to declare yourself bisexual rather than’ just gay. ‘While
coming out of the gay closet can be very difficult for some people, it’s sometimes
easier. Sounds funny when I put it like that but I found that it's true. I know
many gay people. They are family members, friends, and past lovers. When they
say they are gay others can visualize, sexually, exactly what's going on in the
bedroom. For male/male it's insert penis here. For female/female it's usually
insert tongue there. There is no grey
area. But tell anyone that you're bisexual they look at you quizzically. You
can almost see their brains churning. Why? Because bisexuals are grossly
misunderstood. Many think that bisexuals are confused, that they just want to
widen the dating pool, or because they are desperate and take whatever comes
along. Yet I assure you that in most cases this is incorrect. I have personally
never had any of those problems, and I have known I was bi since I was in fourth
grade. An innocent time when I kissed
both a girl, and a neighborhood boy for the first time. They were equally
adorable, and the kiss was equally fun.
Oh, before we go
any further I want to introduce a term that I love dearly: bilovable. This is
definitely way more descriptive of the bi people I know, including myself. It
especially applies to individuals that may not necessarily have an active sex
life, again like me. It simply means what it says: the ability to love someone
of either sex. Plus it just sounds so darn cute.
Okay, so back to
what I was saying. Hmmm, what am I trying to say? I guess that I’d be thrilled if
people simply opened their minds on the subject of love in general. As we all know, love in its many forms brings
joy to our lives: love of others (regardless of gender or race), pet love (This
to me is way stranger. Pet idealization in this country is a billion dollar
business), self- love, a teenaged boys love of his car, a teenage girls love of
clothes... all of it rocks. Why? Because
every form of love sends a powerful positive energy out into the universe. A
force which affects every other being on this planet. It’s something I remember
every day. It's why every day I thrust my love out into the atmosphere in huge
quantities. I hope that somehow I'm helping to balance the spiritual energy
deficit. Very hippie of me, I know. But
it makes me feel good.
Now, onto the subject
of sex and bilovables. I could easily sum it up it with two words: Hell
yeah! I say this with a shit eating grin. My lovers span over a thirty year
period. I remember them all fondly. Although there are two from my drunken
youth that I'm not quite sure of their names. I remember them as leather boy,
and roof girl (don't ask) Most of my lover list consists of men, because
frankly, I'm a huge fan of the penis. But the women, while smaller in rank
fulfilled a need for me that men couldn't. I felt more comfortable with them as
well. With whom else but another woman can you really show your belly flab? Who
else but another woman can you feel comfortable about not shaving your legs?
Anyway, the ability to obtain arousal from both sexes has always been for me-a
wonderful gift. To gaze into a room and take equal gratification from viewing a
nice set of woman's legs or a man's strong bulging forearm is awesome. To
relish the roughness of a man's chin stubble on my fingertips or the silkiness
of a woman's soft hair awes me. To get more graphic: as a bi woman, the
sensation of a hard cock sliding into my wet hole can be equally fulfilling as
a woman's soft lips suckling my clit.
I’d like to think
that all bi people see the spirit within the individual they have found a
connection with without being overly concerned with the package. But that may
just be the romantic in me. Not that there’s anything wrong with simply letting
go sexually with whomever happens to arouse you (male or female). Humans are sexual
animals after all. One of our main functions is to reproduce. Despite when our ‘modern’
brain tries to convince us otherwise.
So to wrap this up,
I feel that bilovables haven’t really been given the understanding they
deserve. There are many wonderful LGBT, GLBT, and other such groups that offer
information and education. Check them out. But I think all we really need to do
is open not only our minds, but also our hearts. Our world is full of spirits
who simply want to love one another. As long as no one gets hurt I say we step
aside and let them.
Love & Warmth,
May Water
May began crossing
off each experience on her long “What I want to do when I grow up” list she
wrote when she was ten years old, the second after writing it. She has explored
most of the United States, parts of Canada and the Canadian Maritimes by car, camping
in remote locations throughout North America, satisfying not only her need to
travel but her love of nature and history. Recently May discovered her love of
writing and dove in head first, inspiring her to pump out five books in 2011.
Her love of the ocean is prevalent in her tales, coastlines being her favorite
places. She fully admits that she wants to come back as a whale next lifetime.
May prefers not to label herself or use any kind of title but she does state
that if a title had to be chosen she would want it to be water nymph
Coming February 16th!
May Water’s first LGBT sweet erotic romance SALT WATER TAFFY! -The first
installment in her alternative erotic romance series SEASIDE SURRENDER (LGBT,
Poly amour, BDSM).
Book 1-SALT WATER
TAFFY, Book 2-MOLY DOLL, Book 3-PEPPERMINT STICKS, Book 4-LICORICE WHIPS
www.bookstrand.com/may-water
www.facebook.com/MayWater
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